Though
hardly an excuse, part of the reason why post hysterectomy sexual
dysfunction is rarely discussed prior to surgery is because
gynecologists are not taught much about women’s sexual health in medical
school.
But sexual
dysfunction following a hysterectomy and ovary removal procedure can be
a devastating outcome for many, which is why women should proceed with
caution if a hysterectomy has been prescribed for a non cancerous
indication.
Insist
on hanging on to your cervix!
From my interviews with
gynecologists, I learned that there are many good reasons for retaining
the cervix. It helps to support the pelvic floor structures; for
example, it will help prevent the bladder from prolapsing, or becoming
displaced and/or distended. It can act as a barrier for infection and
provides some vaginal lubrication. If a woman retains her cervix, her
vaginal integrity is more likely to remain stable.
What if your vagina was
made shorter?
The
AmericanCollege
of Obstetricians and Gynecologists admits to vaginal shortening at
hysterectomy in its 1999 pamphlet Understanding Hysterectomy. It
states clearly that if the hysterectomy procedure requires vaginal
shortening, concurrent with the removal of the cervix, deep thrusting
with intercourse may become painful. I was thrilled to see this
information finally made public until I read the recommendations. There
were two: 1) Being on top during sex or 2) bringing your legs closer
together may help. Any woman will tell you that intercourse wouldn’t be
pleasurable, if at all possible, if she had to keep her legs closer
together, and women living with the condition of a shortened vagina will
tell you that attempting the “on top” position would be excruciatingly
painful.
To this
day, some gynecologists still dismiss this complaint by saying that the
shortened vagina syndrome is a problem that will resolve itself because
vaginal tissue stretches. But scar tissue does not, and if you're left
with too much of it at the top of the vagina, sex won't ever be the
same.
Can you
live with diminished orgasmic responses?
Dull
orgasmic responses are often the result of nerve damage caused by the
cutting with surgical instruments around the organs being removed
(uterus, cervix, Fallopian tubes and ovaries). In March 2006, the
results of the first ever multi-cultural survey of European women were
published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. The new study showed that
surgically menopausal women have a greater risk of low sexual desire and
dull orgasmic responses.
For more
details on this study, go to the following
link.
Without a cervix or a
uterus, it is impossible for any hysterectomized woman to have a deep
uterine orgasm. In order to achieve one, the penis must make contact
with the cervix (the correct medical term is cervical tapping), causing
the cervix to jiggle a little, which, in turn, causes the uterus to
contract. That’s what is known as “the big O” and many women don’t
realize that this pleasure won’t ever be a part of their sexuality after
their reproductive organs have been excised from their abdomen.
As for the clitoral
orgasm, it too can be diminished. There are a lot of nerves extending
from the uterus and the cervix to the clitoris, and once these are cut
to remove the cervix, the clitoral orgasm can become very dull.
Your libido could also
take a nosedive
Loss of sexual desire
is another form of sexual
dysfunction, which is the direct result of oophorectomy (removal of the
ovaries). You’ll always remember what it was like to look at your
partner with desire, but once the ovaries are gone, it’s hard for most
hysterectomized women to will their bodies to desire sex. This is a
problem that is getting lots of attention lately and some medical
experts are now specializing in the treatment of female sexual
dysfunction (FSD). The problem is that their services are aimed mostly
at women who still have their reproductive organs, excluding
oophorectomized women who probably need their help the most.
If you’ve
been prescribed a hysterectomy for an indication other than cancer, and
if your sexuality is important to you and your partner, find a
compassionate gynecological surgeon who specializes in minimally
invasive alternatives to hysterectomy. You’ll be glad you did.
Lise Cloutier-Steeleis the author of Misinformed Consent – Women’s
Stories about Unnecessary Hysterectomy, Next Decade, Inc.,
NJ, 2003. For helpful information on hysterectomy and ovary removal
visit her web site at:
www.hysterectomyfacts.com. Lise
is a communications
specialist and a professional writer and editor, who has survived a
traumatic experience with hysterectomy. She is also the author of Living
and Learning with a Child Who Stutters. And she is the recipient of a
Canada 125 Award in recognition of a significant contribution to the
community and to Canada for her volunteer efforts to help the parents of
children who stutter. She has appeared on Canada AM, the Women's
Television Network (now W), The Phil Donahue Show, The Body and Health
Show, and several other media to talk about the important topic of
unnecessary hysterectomy in North America.
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